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Savoring Sweet Moments

by HEIDI J. SMITH AGING PARENTS Balancing ministry, family, & life
Savoring Sweet Moments
“Honor your father and mother. This is the first commandment with a promise that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.”
Ephesians 6:2-3

“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.” Helen Keller 


Since I was visiting from out of town, my dad said, “Let’s go out to eat, my treat.” We jumped in the minivan, dodged the rain, and ducked into the hamburger shop.  


The smells of fried chicken, grilled hamburgers, and french fries welcomed us as we patiently waited in line behind the giggling children and tired parents. 


After we ordered, my dad reached for his leather wallet when I noticed his shaking hands trying to pull out his debit card, but it stuck. He fumbled and finally gave it to me to handle.  


We filled our Styrofoam cups with iced tea and lemonade, but my dad couldn’t secure the plastic lid. Embarrassed he lowered his head and whispered, “I’m falling apart. Could you please help me?” 


My heart melted. Mom had only been gone a little while, yet dad seemed older. Lost. Uncertain. 


Where did the time go? When I look in the mirror, my face shows wrinkles and gray hair peeking out. It seems like yesterday I was a little girl sitting at the dining room table with parents and siblings. Now I have a family of my own. 


I paused and thanked the Lord for this time with my dad. 


“Honor your father and your mother. This is the first commandment with a promise that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” Ephesians 6:2-3 


Life goes quickly. Are we cherishing the time we have with our loved ones? What are ways you capture those special moments?


Closing Prayer
Dear Heavenly Father, Thank you for our families and our sweet moments that we share. Help us to honor our parents and cherish the time we have with them. Help us to be good examples for our kids. If we have a strained relationship or hurt feelings, please help us to forgive and mend the relationship. Thank you for loving us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Resources
Article: 6 Practical Ways to Honor your Parents by Tim Challies This article provides some more examples.
Article: Honor the Parents God Gave You by Marshall Segal This article is a good example of why we need to honor.
Book: The Hedge People: How I Kept by Sanity and Sense of Humor as an Alzheimer’s Caregiver by Louise Carey My neighbor gave me this book when I started caregiving for my dad. It made me smile :)
Question for Reflection

Please share how you honor your parents.

Comments
Heidi J. Smith
January 27, 2026

I help my parents with their finances.
Listen to their stories
Assist with errands or chores
Take them to doctor appointments
Visit them
Ask for their advice
Tell the truth in love
Speak well of them
Share photos or FaceTime
Show an interest in their hobbies