Several years ago, we read C.S. Lewis’ The Chronicles of Narnia series to our children and thoroughly enjoyed the process of guiding them through Narnia. Then, earlier this year, I was browsing through the audiobook selection on my app and saw the series; I thought it would be an enjoyable was to pass the time as I walk the dog, so downloaded it. I’ve just finished listening through all seven books and remain convinced of their profound depth.
Each book contains many beautiful passages and memorable lines; one of my favorites from The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe comes after Edmund has been rescued from the White Witch. He had betrayed his brother and sisters by joining up with her, but Aslan rescues him and brings him into his camp. He and Edmund have a private meeting, after which Aslan presents Edmund to Peter, Susan, and Lucy, and tells them that “there is no need to talk to him about what is past.”
Aslan’s statement to Peter beautifully illustrates the forgiveness we have in Christ. The Great Lion does not gloss over Edmund’s offense; on the contrary, if you know the story, you know that he takes Edmund’s place as the sacrifice that the Deep Magic demands. He also does not shy away from speaking with Edmund about his transgression. But after that conversation has been had, Aslan instructs the other children in how they should relate to their brother: they should not hold a grudge or continually bring up his misdeeds but rather move forward in acting out their forgiveness.
Forgiveness does not mean pretending that the offense never happened, and it also does not erase necessary or inevitable consequences. But God’s forgiveness to each of us is total and comprehensive, and in light of that forgiveness, we can freely (though imperfectly) extend forgiveness to others, even when it seems impossible. His grace to us enables us to extend grace to others.
Are there places in your cross-cultural situation in which you find forgiveness particularly challenging?
It can be hard to extend forgiveness in a setting where many cultures are coming together and where each culture has its own ideas and norms about what is even an offense and then how best to work through an issue. This is where the gospel must permeate all our interactions!