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Devotional

Striking Out at Fitting In

by RACHEL MCDONALD YANAC ACCEPTANCE Being a woman in ministry Comparison Connecting with nationals Culture adjustment Identity in Christ Spiritual wellness
Striking Out at Fitting In
  • by RACHEL MCDONALD YANAC
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“Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God... and, moreover, that the Gentiles might glorify God for his mercy.”
Romans 15:7-9

My long skirt dragged in the mud as I slipped and on the steep slope leading to the village church. I hadn’t considered the treacherous effects of rainy season when I pulled this dress from my closet; I just wanted to fit in with the Quechua ladies who always wear skirts. But their colorful wool “polleras” were much shorter than my dress, so I was the only one with a muddy hem as I slid onto the hard wooden bench in the back row next to my husband.


Sigh….


“At least I’m wearing my longest, most glittery earrings,” I thought, knowing that women in this culture prize sparkling earrings that dangle in front of their thick black braids. But as I peered through the crowd in front of me I noticed something odd; only men sat on this side of the building. I had forgotten that segregation was common in village churches. After I tiptoed over to the women’s side, I discovered my next major faux pas; this denomination taught their women to remove all glittery jewelry once they became Christians.


So there I sat, red-faced and embarrassed in my muddy skirt and long earrings, feeling like I had completely struck out as I tried to fit in.


But an amazing thing happened as the congregation filed out of the church at the end of the service…


The pastor and church leaders greeted my husband and me as honored guests, and the Quechua women lined up to press my smooth hand between their own rough, work-worn palms. They accepted me completely in spite of my cultural blunders.


Isn’t this a wonderful picture of what God does for us when we stumble into his presence, muddy and bedraggled from falling into the same old sin pit yet again? It’s an example of how our Father looks with love into our eyes, instead of staring judgmentally at our dangling earrings when we’ve tried a bit too hard to please him through the glitter of “good works.”


How can I respond in any other way than to glorify God for his great mercy?


Closing Prayer
Dear merciful Father, thank you for accepting me with my muddy skirts, glittery earrings, and all that those things entail. Your mercy is amazing, especially when I have done nothing to earn it. Please put in me the grace to extend this same mercy and acceptance to those around me. Amen.
Resources
Song: Come Just As You Are by Crystal Lewis This old favorite always reminds me that I don’t have to “change my clothes” into something beautiful and sinless in order to spend time with God.
Video: A Letter From God This is a wonderful 5-minute video from Byfield Parish Church showcasing nature’s beauty and Scripture passages about God’s love and acceptance of us. It really helps me to get my mind back in the right place when I realize that I’m trying to do amazing things or look beautiful in order to feel God’s acceptance.
Question for Reflection

Are there any “muddy skirts” or “dangling earrings” in your life that you feel are keeping you from feeling God’s full acceptance? Or maybe you’re struggling with showing mercy and acceptance to someone in your circle. Take a minute to jot down what comes to mind, and then list a few steps that you can take today to make some changes in your actions or your way of thinking.

Comments
Rachel McDonald Yanac
August 09, 2022

I often feel like I won’t be completely accepted by God if I don’t “do enough” for him, even though I’m never quite sure what I should be doing, or how much is enough. To combat this, I need to regularly immerse myself in passages like the one I chose for this devotional, to remind myself that God loves and accepts me, mud and all! And I need to consciously remember this when I’m struggling to overlook a fault or a glaring difference in someone else, and to extend to her the same mercy and acceptance.