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Devotional

Wrangling Words

by SHIRLEY RALSTON TRANSFORMATION Biblical conflict resolution Connecting with nationals Culture adjustment Feeling known & understood God’s guidance & direction Intercultural relationships Language learning
Wrangling Words
  • by SHIRLEY RALSTON
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“Keep reminding God’s people of these things. Warn them before God against quarreling about words; it is of no value, and only ruins those who listen. Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.”
2 Timothy 2:14-15

I cringe when I think about some of the communication faux pas I made during my first year living overseas. A funny one I’ll never forget happened at lunch one day with a group of new friends. I told a story about a new Lebanese restaurant I visited in the Middle Eastern city where we lived. One of my friends was from the United Kingdom, and she asked me, “How did you find it?” I proceeded to tell her the route I took to drive there. In the awkward moment that followed, I realized that wasn’t at all what she meant. A more proper response would have been, “The food was good and the service was great!” My friend wanted to know how I liked it, not how I got there.


Our interaction that day highlighted how important it is to know that different words mean different things in different cultures. My understanding of that fact transformed my relationships and my interaction with the culture where we lived. 


It’s no surprise that Scripture also affirms how important it is to understand the meaning of words. Paul writes to Timothy in 2 Timothy 2:14-15 about the importance of correctly handling God’s Word. He lists several disciplines needed to make that happen: diligence, accuracy, and abstinence - from wrangling over words and worldly or empty chatter. The result is the transformed life of an approved and unashamed worker.


Paul’s instruction is just as valuable for us today. We struggle with that same age-old problem in a current-day form. Words fly off our phones in a curious modern-day shorthand that is often misunderstood. Social media surrounds us with worldly and empty chatter. Opinions about everything choke the Twittersphere. We wrangle over pronouns and offensive words.


In the swirling rhetoric that surrounds us, God’s Word is a balm to our souls. His timeless wisdom transforms our thinking and clarifies our worldview. It is the grounding we need to understand the culture in which we live. Meditate on it, and live it out - so you will present yourself approved to God as one who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth.


Closing Prayer
Father, Help us to shut out the worldly and empty chatter that surrounds us every day and focus instead on the diligent pursuit of your Word. Let it transform us so we can stand before You approved and unashamed. Amen.
Resources
Book: The Wisdom Pyramid by Brett McCracken A great look at how to navigate today’s social media environment in a healthy and helpful way.
Question for Reflection

What is the funniest cultural communication misunderstanding you’ve ever had?

Comments
Shirley Ralston
October 17, 2022

I had an incident going through security at a Middle Eastern airport, on my way back to the United States. It’s funny now but at the time, it was quite unnerving. My keyless car key fob with the remote lock/unlock buttons became a source of great interest during security screening. I was detained for a short time as they passed it around, trying to determine whether or not it was some type of detonator. My attempts to communicate what it was were unsuccessful. I guess they finally realized I was harmless. They let me pass and I breathed a huge sigh of relief. Car keys! Who knew!