I was in my fuzzy pajamas when someone knocked on the door. Sighing, I grabbed my African chatanga (skirt) and plastered a smile on my face. “Lord,” I grumbled, “tonight is family movie night. Why can’t I have peace and quiet for one night?”

Have you experienced burn out? Helping one more person overwhelms you, but guilt gnaws on you. As a woman in ministry, that is your job, right?

Mary and Martha welcomed Jesus and his disciples into their home, but their responses differed. While Martha rushed around, Mary rested at Jesus’ feet. What made the difference?

Mary's heart craved time with the King, while Martha's heart craved tasks for the King.

Martha served the King, but she missed an opportunity to be with Him.

“Lord, she complained, “don’t you care that my sister has left me to serve alone? So tell her to give me a hand. The Lord said, ‘Martha, Martha, you are worried and upset about my things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has made the right choice, and it will not be taken away from her.’” Luke 10:40–42

1. In the craziness of ministry, do I take time to sit and soak in God’s Word? If I desire to pour into others, I must first be saturated with Jesus. Am I guarding my quiet time with the Lord?

2. Have I set my priorities? The Lord emphasized that “one thing is necessary.” My relationship with God comes first, family second, and ministry third. Am I focused more on my responsibilities for God rather than my relationship with God?

3. Do I schedule retreats? Jesus taught, healed, and traveled. Seeking refreshment and fellowship, Jesus retreated to Mary and Martha’s home.

Am I planning breaks and penciling them on my calendar?