When you think about Paul in the Bible, what characteristics do you think of? Bold, brave, outspoken, and strong are some of the adjectives that come to mind. So when Paul exudes care and compassion for the hearts of believers in Colossians 4, it makes me pause and wonder. I tend to think of encouragement and the heart as aspects of life that are softer and, sometimes, less important. However, this passage reveals the importance of encouragement and the value of the heart. Paul, a bold and strong hero of the faith, took the time to check in with the Colossians about how their hearts were doing. Paul sent someone to the Colossians specifically to encourage them. Far from being insignificant, the value of encouragement and the heart is beyond what we can comprehend!
God deeply values the heart. We see this throughout Scripture, from the Shema (Deut. 6:5) to today’s reading. Current culture pushes us to think about the heart either as an emotional and weak aspect of who we are, or as the center of all and the dictator of our choices. Paul refutes both of these ideas by explaining that the heart is valuable (worth checking in on and attending), but that the heart is strengthened by encouragement that comes from outside of ourselves. Paul sent fellow believers to the Colossian church so that the Colossians could be encouraged by the work of God and His Spirit. Instead of sending some spiritual guru to point the Colossians to look inward, Paul sent fellow believers to point the Colossians to look at what God had done and be encouraged by His work and goodness.
How is your heart today? Are you allowing yourself to be encouraged by other believers, or are you too caught up in trying to build and encourage others that you won’t let yourself be encouraged and strengthened? Let’s not get so caught up in programs and statistics and measurable growth that we neglect the care and significance of encouragement. It may not always be physically visible, but the spiritual changes it spurs will lead us closer to Jesus and deeper in relationships with those He has placed around us.
Be encouraged today. You are God’s chosen daughter, and God is for you (see Romans 8). You are not alone; there is a community of believers—family—throughout the world who are also for you (see Hebrews 12:1). Take a deep breath and allow yourself to be encouraged by God and His people.
What’s one way you can allow the Spirit of God to refresh and encourage your heart through other believers this week? As you lean into God’s encouragement, what’s one simple way you can encourage a fellow believer in Christ?
I can trust that God has forgiven me and choose to rest in His grace and goodness instead of constantly trying to confess and make things right by my own strength. I can dwell on God’s goodness and blessings (like a beautiful sunset, fresh flowers, or a hot cup of coffee) and receive God’s encouragement instead of feeling like I have to manage and control all the things. As far as encouraging another believer, I can choose to build my husband up this week and focus on his strengths. I can pray for him and thank him for all that he does instead of expecting him to do things!