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It's Never Been Easy

by BARBARA KINDSCHI UNITY Biblical conflict resolution
It's Never Been Easy
  • by BARBARA KINDSCHI
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“My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one. May they be brought to complete unity to let the world know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.”
John 17:20-23

From the Psalms to Paul’s letters the Bible is not silent about unity. We all have examples; some very close to home; of our struggle for unity. Marriages, friendships, churches, organizations, and teams all provide chapters of material. There are no mere bystanders.


When the Bible uses words like “strive” and “contend” in relation to our unity in the faith with other believers, it’s clear this no easy task.


The Old Testament is full of examples of the divisions within Israel; among themselves and with their leaders and the horrible consequences to their rebellion. God never gave up on reminding them of His desire for them to ALL follow Him with their WHOLE hearts. Their obedience as a nation to the one and only loving, moral, and sovereign God was to set them apart from the evil kingdoms around them.


Jesus prayed for His first followers and us to be set apart. He asks the Father that we may be one, just as He and the Father are one. Why? So that the world may believe that He sent Him and we can share in their love. The purpose of our oneness is amazingly more than the formation of a pleasant homogeneous group.


Yet the historical account continues with the early church receiving letters from Paul revealing their divisions, rivalries, and quarrels.


A long list of reasons can be given for why unity has always been hard. Every reader can make their own. Jon Bloom, of Desiring God Ministries, shares that he sees it as a way to be refined and glorify God. “Our pursuit of unity is designed to give us many opportunities to die to our own sin and bear with the sin of others.”


What could “dying to sin” mean in the groups we have lived in or find ourselves now?



  • Seeing not just my local neighbors and students (for me) as made in the image of God – but my ex-pat co-workers too?


  • Not expecting or needing to be consulted?


  • Waiting to speak – or not speaking at all?


  • Holding my schedule loosely?


  • Admitting I am wrong?



And then reading John 17:23 again. And again.


Closing Prayer
God, how amazing that the unity of believers – our oneness – will let the world know you sent your son. I admit I too often just see it as a lofty, unreachable goal. Lead me back to the Psalms and David’s acknowledgement of his smallness in light of your power and sovereignty. Forgive me for my passive attitude towards difficulties. Thank you for your word, examples of your faithfulness through the ages, and the transparency of the people whose lives you chose to record. When I look at my list in the devotional, I know I am still ‘dying to self’ on most of them. Thank you for your faithfulness. Amen.
Resources
Article: Why Is Christian Unity So Hard? by Jon Bloom, Desiring God Looks at the struggle of unity through the ages. The Bible does not cover up the sin of humanity.
Song: Beloved Let Us Love One Another 1 John 4:7-8. Instrumental and lyrics. Scripture put to music
Question for Reflection

Do you have a few items you could bring to mind where God has used striving for unity in your situation to change you?

Comments
Barbara Kindschi
October 26, 2026

The list at the end of this devotional is hardly complete. But I would say as I grew older and became one of the older ones on a team it became more of a challenge to give up being consulted. At first and with some people it can be easy. They’re new and have fresh, innovative ideas. And then comes a problem or a plan goes bad and it’s so easy to judge. As a talker it’s been hard but insightful to see how being quiet is the best method! You can’t hear others’ ideas if you’re talking. Rather obvious but one can be pretty blind. John 13:35 has back to me so often. When I’m selfish and stubborn I’m not loving. Loving my brothers and sister is how all men will know I’m Jesus’ disciple. I have then have to ask myself – How do I want to be known?