A new colleague recently joined our team in Peru. He’s a rock climbing aficionado, thrilled to be living in the Andes Mountains. In fact, he has spent a few hours every afternoon during his first two weeks here scaling the local climbing walls.
Michael’s enthusiasm for this sport reminds me of my one inauspicious attempt at rock climbing. Strong enough to scramble up several yards of the rock face, I envisioned myself becoming an adept climber, a vision that evaporated immediately upon looking down. My fear of heights kicked in, and every muscle in my body started quivering as I desperately tried to find new footholds so I could either advance to the top of the cliff or climb back down without falling off. Without that solid foothold, my anticipated climbing days were over before they had begun.
While not all English Bible translations use the exact same word, we’re familiar with the idea that hanging on to anger gives the devil a foothold in our lives. (Eph 4:26-7) Not too long ago, (and I’ll be honest and admit that it was during an extended argument with my husband), God directed my attention to 2 Corinthians 2:10, where forgiveness is described as a form of spiritual warfare. If holding onto grudges and resentments gives Satan a foothold, then choosing to forgive is a powerful way to outwit the devil instead of letting him outwit us.
It seems like a simple concept, but in reality, fighting Satan by practicing forgiveness may be one of the most difficult things we’re called to do. After all, most of us will probably never fall into the “big sins” of murder or adultery. And while we might be tempted to lie or steal, we usually avoid these sins because we know we could easily be found out. But hold a grudge against a colleague for some perceived slight, or refuse to apologize after an argument unless my husband apologizes first? Guilty as charged!
Have you, like me, fallen into this scheme and allowed the devil to outwit you? Let’s use our weapon of forgiveness to demolish every foothold that our resentments have chiseled into our hearts.
Can you remember a time when unforgiveness colored your daily life? Why was it hard for you to forgive? How were you able to finally resolve this problem?
Several years ago, we were completely defrauded by a person we trusted to help us in our ministry. Not only did she steal large sums of money from the office and from several colleagues, she also told several ugly lies, and enticed one of our local workers into sexual sin, which discouraged him to the point that he gave us his ministry. To make matters worse, she was my best friend’s sister, and this string of sins cast a dark cloud on our friendship for many years. I knew I should forgive this person, but I truly couldn’t do it in my own strength. To be honest, it took several years of constantly returning to the Lord each time I felt the resentment spill over in my heart. One Sunday as I sat behind her in church, watching her try in vain to keep her three agitated children quiet, God filled my heart with compassion and my resentment was gone for good. I’m grateful that God himself worked the miracle of forgiveness in my heart.